My Birth Control Failed: What Do I Do?

Unfortunately, no birth control is 100% effective. If it failed, you’re probably wondering whether you are pregnant. Your first step is to take a pregnancy test. We recommend visiting your nearest pregnancy help center for a no-cost test. 

If you choose to take an at-home test, follow the directions carefully. Don’t panic—we’re here for you. Contact Lamb of God Maternity Home if you need a referral for a pregnancy help center near you.

How to Take a Home Pregnancy Test

If you take an over-the-counter pregnancy test, here are the steps to avoid getting a false-negative or false-positive result:

• Check the expiration date.
• Do not test until a day or two after your missed period.
• Read the instructions thoroughly before beginning the test.
• Take the test in the morning when your urine is most concentrated.
• Follow the steps exactly.
• Wait the recommended amount of time before checking the results.
• Repeat the test in 3 or 5 days.

Getting a False-Negative Result:

A false negative means your test result says you are not pregnant when you actually are. You may be testing too early and need to wait a few more days, or you may have taken the test incorrectly. 

Getting a False-Positive Result:

A false positive indicates you are pregnant when you are not. This result can happen after an early miscarriage or user error. 

After a Positive Pregnancy Test

After a positive pregnancy test, you may also want to consider having an ultrasound scan, which provides valuable information about your pregnancy. You’ll learn the following:

• How far along you are in your pregnancy.
• The location of your pregnancy.
• Whether your pregnancy is viable (growing) or if you have miscarried.

Many pregnancy help centers offer a no-cost, limited obstetric ultrasound scan.

What Should I Do After Confirming My Pregnancy?

Please meet with a Lamb of God Maternity Home staff member to discuss your options. We will be happy to discuss your situation and the options available. Our maternity homes are a safe place to explore your concerns and future. 

While you are deciding whether to place your child for adoption or choose to parent, our maternity homes are available. We’ll provide 24/7 Wrap-Around Care, meet your healthcare needs, mentor you, and provide spiritual direction.

You can contact us by filling out our confidential online Contact Form or calling us at (385) 471-5713. We are here for you. How can we help you today?